Kay Fabella
Hi, I'm Kay, a Spain-based American expat since 2010 now training as counsellor (CPCAB, UK).
After partnering with distributed teams at companies like the IMF, Red Hat, and Philips, I now work with long-term expats and globally mobile people who feel caught between staying, leaving, or redefining home. If you've passed the 5-year mark abroad and are still figuring out what "home" looks like, I'm here to help :).
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Expat Orientation Conversation
For long-term expats who are outwardly functional in their lives and work, but experiencing quiet disorientation around identity or belonging. A 60-minute paid conversation focused on sense-making, pattern recognition, and orientation.
What this is:
Not therapy, coaching, diagnosis, or treatment — but a structured reflective conversation to help you understand how long-term expatriation may be shaping your inner experience.
What you get:
- Language for experiences that often go unnamed in long-term expat life
- Greater clarity around contextual vs personal factors
- Orientation around what kinds of support (if any) might be appropriate next
- Optional 1-page written summary of themes discussed
Why now:
Especially useful if you've been telling yourself “I should be fine by now,” but still feel disconnected or flat — and want to make sense of it without pathologizing yourself or forcing another adaptation.
Format: 60-minute Zoom · 60€ · one session, with the option to book again if helpful.
Not appropriate for: crisis support, trauma processing, or active mental health crises. Referrals available if needed.
- 60m
- €60.00
Discovery Call
Want to learn more about Expat Orientation Calls before booking? I'll answer your questions.
- 15m
Coffee Chat
Just want to say hi? Book time to speak here.
- 30m