Kay Fabella
You've been abroad long enough that the logistics are handled. You're functional, even fluent — and still carrying something you can't quite name.
I'm Kay. I work with long-term expats and globally mobile people navigating the "no longer new, still not home" phase —the stretch where the adjustment guides run out and something quieter settles in.
Filipina-American, 17 years in Spain, counsellor-in-training (CPCAB).
I've previously worked with globally mobile professionals at the IMF, Red Hat, and Philips —and I'm looking forward to supporting you in your long-term life abroad.
Expat Orientation Conversation
You've been abroad long enough that the logistics are handled. And there's still something sitting just below the surface —not a crisis, not depression exactly, just a low-grade hum you've never had the right words for. This is a 60-minute conversation to help you name it.
What we cover:
- Language for what's been sitting unnamed in long-term expat life
- Clarity on what's situational — and what might be worth looking at more closely
- A sense of what, if anything, to do next — without pressure to do anything
- Optional written summary of what we covered, yours to keep
This is especially for you if:
You've been telling yourself "I should be fine by now" — and you're tired of not having a better answer than that.
You're high-functioning. You've adapted. You've built a real life abroad. And something is still quietly off.
This is not therapy, coaching, diagnosis, or treatment. It's a bounded, reflective space for sense-making — designed specifically for the phase where the adjustment guides run out.
Format: 60 minutes · Zoom · €75
Paid from the start — this isn't a free discovery call. The session itself is where the work happens.
With the option to book again if helpful.
- 60m
- €75.00
Discovery Call
Want to learn more about Expat Orientation Calls before booking? I'll answer your questions.
- 25m
Coffee Chat
Working on something adjacent? Want to compare notes on long-term life abroad? Book here.
- 30m